May 09, 2008

Breakfast au moulin

Waffle Chers Amis,

Menu planning is hit and miss chez nous.  It is one of those things I should do more faithfully, like clean the pantry and water the plants along the back paths during the heat of summer.  I am bad at follow through.  My dh is much more organized and diligent.  What do you expect from a guy whose  work title has always included the word "Controller."  When he was home between jobs he even made a breakfast menu for the week and posted it on the fridge.  It was wonderful.  What a great idea!  Novel even.  Eating first thing in the morning has always been optional for me read waste of time and equates with a bowl of cereal (usually granola or Kashi) and coffee for me and frozen waffles (heated of course) with peanut butter and honey or toasted bagels and hot ovaltine  or  jus d'orange pour les enfants.   But dh's offerings also boasted eggs and bacon/sausage, cheese grits, biscuits (no gravy), and various fruit filled muffins!  "On a WEEK DAY?" I said quizzically, eyes rolling while imagining towering dishes before 8 am.  Mais oui, Marjorie! Who could complain?  He did the cooking. So what a menu we had - until this week.  Sadly, with his return to the joy of the commute, we've returned to $1.05/box waffles and cold cereal with the odd banana thrown in for color.  Quel dommage! Luckily tomorrow is Saturday and that means Dad is cooking. Hooray for weekends!

--Marjorie

PS - I have an early morning retreat across town on the virtue of Kindness (boy do I need that!) so it will be cereal or a bagel on the run for me.  I'll kindly share any wisdom I glean from Father's talk if I am awake enough at 7 am to write it down :-)

May 05, 2008

A Little Good News

TeaChers Amis,

It's snack/break time so I thought I would jot you a quick note before I pour myself a cup of tea and the timer sounds.  It is the merry month of May, there are only 15 days of school left, and my sweet DH started  his new job this morning! Happy sigh. 

--Marjorie

April 09, 2008

A Visit from Our Lady

100_2029Chers Amis,

Back in December I posted about a beautiful devotion called Pilgrim Queen of the Family that is designed to honor our Blessed Mother, promote vocations and encourage family prayer.  To quote myself :-)- "Pilgrim Queen of the Family is similar to the Elijah cup in that an image of Our Lady of Guadalupe in a small table-top shrine visits the homes of 5-10 participating families.  While she is visiting, the family places the shrine in a prominent place in their home and commits themselves to pray the Holy Rosary together as a family, to pray for vocations, the Pope, the family and the Church.  After a predetermined length of time (from 3-7 days) the shrine is passed to the next family in the circle and Our Lady continues her pilgrimage."

Last week the shrine arrived at our house for the first time and it was so lovely I wanted to share it with you again and encourage you to take part. While we start our school day in prayer around our small altar and we say the grace at meals, the Angelus at noon,and sleepy bedtime prayers, we have never said a family rosary regularly.  I was excited when a friend suggested we start a Pilgrim Queen group.  I need those sacramentals, those concrete reminders of the supernatural dimension that surrounds and supports us.  I needed Mary to come to my home, as she did Elizabeth's, to comfort and guide.  The kids were so excited when the shrine arrived and there was much fuss over how many candles to light and where she should be placed and how next time we would have flowers, maybe roses in bud vases and how we should plan a special meal.   

Was our five-day visit with our Lady perfect?  Not if you consider a squirmy 7 year old being squirmy during prayers.  But if you can see supernaturally and watch the candle light flicker like the light of Christ warming the room and hear the girls' - and Pippin's  - sweet voices praying the rosary together, meditating on the mysteries of Jesus' life, it was perfection. 

-- Marjorie

PS - If you are local and would like to join our group, please e-mail me.  Our group is just starting and I will be putting together an itinerary this weekend so don't delay :-)  If you are interested in starting a group in your area, just click on Pilgrim Queen of the Family

PPS - For a nice rosary coloring page click here.  It is a picture of a rosary with the names of the prayers by the beads.  Pippin has a hard time using real beads, but he enjoyed coloring each bead in as we prayed.


Gilt in Spring's Gold

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"All that is sweet, delightful, and amiable in this world, in the serenity of the air, the fineness of seasons, the joy of light, the melody of sounds, the beauty of colors, the fragrance of smells, the splendor our precious stones, is nothing else but Heaven breaking through the veil of this world, manifesting itself in such a degree and darting forth in such variety so much of its own 100_2033nature."-   William Law

Chers Amis,

Spring has gilt the garden in her fairy gold and all is fresh and full of hope.  The winter rains have wooed the Lily of the Valley out of hiding. Hearts of valiant hosta greet me flanked by banks of ferns yet unfurled.  Waves of  nodding violets, uninvited, beam beneath the dogwood canopy.  "We live!" is the chorus heard. "God is good," my grateful reply.
--Marjorie

March 31, 2008

Note to Self

Bean Note to Self:

Marjorie,
It is admirable that you are trying to wake up earlier, to be more productive, to get a head start on the day, to say your morning meditation before the cacophony commences - but really, girlfriend,  it helps to put the coffee IN the coffee maker.  Plain water, no matter how hot, isn't going to cut it at 5:45  AM.   

-- M

March 30, 2008

Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, Libraryday . . .

Books Chers Amis,

So what does one do when one isn't blogging and one is off-line?  Peruse, scan, page and flip through any and all printed material within arms reach, devouring and savoring each letter and idea. Basically, read constantly. There must be a special of torture for people like me where one is ensconced in a beautiful bibliotheque filled with scrolls, books, magazines, novels and tomes of every kind - without words. Have you seen those commercials by Kia where the customer says they found all the great car buying wisdom in the universe in a special book and when the thumb through the pages the only text is the company's website addy?  Ack!!!!! Nightmare of nightmares!

My very favorite day of the week is Libraryday and often we have more than one Libraryday a week. I particularly love receiving e-mail missives announcing the arrival of a requested title or even better - titles at the local branch.   You know you're a book addict if the librarians know you by sight and automatically scan the 'holds' shelves when you walk in the door.  (Then again, maybe it is Pippin and those incidents they remember . . .)  On Libraryday nights I curl up on the couch next to my dh with the book basket at my feet and dig in with both fists.  I bet that one thing homeschooling moms have in common is a love of reading.  Octopus?  Squid? Vikings and Aztec warriors?  Inventors, Paul Klee, Salvador Dali, calligraphy, glaciers, the Inuit, totem poles, classifying insects, the life cycle of pill bugs, myriapods, and  Lenard Bernstein?  It's like potato chips, I can't get enough!Saving

I do read books for grown ups too.  Lately I've been indulging in several books on living healthier and being more productive.   Here are a few that were worth reading:

Waiting for Aphrodite: Journeys into the Time before Bones

Younger Next Year

Eight Weeks to Optimum Health: A Proven Program for Taking Full Advantage of Your Body's Natural Healing Power

and my new favorite organizing book, Getting Things Done: the Art of Stress-Free Productivity
 

Whew!  That's the longest I've spent writing for weeks. I should do an edit, but it's time to go upstairs and open a book and eat some dark chocolate with dh.  What are you reading?

--Marjorie

March 26, 2008

Still Kicking

Chers Amis,

Just a short note to check in.  I am still alive, but hibernating.  I hope that the warmth of spring will reinvigorate my pitiful blogging of late.  It has been so difficult to find the time as dh is home now in career transition.  By the time I get the kids to bed, my brain is mush and I find it very difficult to string subjects and verbs together with any skill or clarity.  I really need to kick myself out of bed earlier. I fell off the 5:30 am wagon so to speak a few months ago and I still haven't recovered from the time change. We have so many interesting things to share, I'll try to open my eyes a bit earlier tomorrow.  For now, late night news, tomorrow's weather, a few minutes w/dh and a comfy bed. 

--Marjorie

February 21, 2008

A special soup for St. Bernadette and Our Lady of Lourdes

Lourdes Chers Amis,

Monday was the feast day of St. Bernadette in France (et chez nous).  Her feast-day was originally designated as February 18th, the day Our Lady promised to make Bernadette happy, not in this life, but in the next. In the U.S. people usually celebrate this feast on April 16 - the day of her death and entry into Heaven.  For some unknown reason, the February date stuck in my mind  - so we feted St. Bernadette a la francaise au moulin with a huge pot of steaming garbure. Gar -what you ask and what has that to do with St. Bernadette? Garbure[gar-BOOR], mes amis, is:

"A vegetable or meat soup so thick it could be considered a stew or casserole dish. Garbure has many variations, but most commonly contains cabbage, beans, potatoes and bits of pork, bacon or preserved goose. It's usually served with toasted or fried bread. Garbure is immensely popular with Basques and the most famous version comes from Béarn, France.
© Copyright Barron's Educational Services, Inc. 1995 based on THE FOOD LOVER'S COMPANION, 2nd edition, by Sharon Tyler Herbst."

Garbure is typical of the region where St. Bernadette lived. Since we are rather fond of cooking, and more importantly eating on special feast days, I have been wanting to make garbure for either Our Lady of Lourdes or the Feast of St. Bernadette for years.  I have very happy memories (think Marcel Proust, madelines and a cup of linden tea) of eating a hearty bowl of garbure in the Pyrenees avec les parents d'Helene after cross country skiing in Barrege. (Very fun, very clutzy, very cold, much in need of hot soup!) The problem?  Finding a doable recipe that is still plus au moin authentique.  Garbure is a bit like barbeque - a signature dish for a region, with many variations on a theme.  I decided to use a recipe from www.epicurious.com with several additions and subtractions d'apres le conseille gastronomique d'une chere amie and expert in la cuisine du sud-ouest de la France. Garbure

It turned out fabulously and I only wish I had been able to add the duck (see below), eat some local fromage de brebis, and the infamous dried sausages made in Barrege.  Some are up  to 6 ft long!.  (I must say that once upon a time one some young foodie brought one home as a gift ready to tell customs that the large package was one of the long white candles pilgrims bring home from Lourdes. Our Lady must have been watching over her/him :-)   The soup is wonderful and you must try it in April - if not sooner! (Merci, merci, merci, Helene! I had enough leftovers to freeze and when my sisdoc comes next week avec ses enfants on va manger la soupe, boire un ver de vin rouge, et penser a toi!)

--Marjorie

PS - Here is a coloring sheet of Our Lady of Lourdes and St. Bernadette

PPS - Voici la recette pour la soupe from Gourmet Magazine with a few changes and additions:

Garbure (Cabbage and White Bean Soup) 

1 cup dried white beans such as Great Northern, navy, or cannellini (7 oz), picked over and rinsed

1 whole clove (omit - trop pot de feu - a different dish)
1 medium onion, peeled and left whole
2 1/2 lb smoked ham hocks (preferably unsmoked - I used several meaty hambones instead of hocks)
streaky bacon - I added a whole package, sauted until cooked but not crunchy, retained a cup or so to fully brown for garnish
3 qt water
6 fresh parsley sprigs
1 Turkish or 1/2 California bay leaf (omit - trop sud est or south east)
1 fresh thyme sprig (omit - trop sud est or south east)
2 garlic cloves, finely chopped
1 lb yellow-fleshed potatoes such as Yukon Gold (3 to 4 medium
6 leeks
6 carrottes
6 turnips
 ( I was nervous about using turnips and only used 3, but they were excellent and would add all 6 next time)
1 lb cabbage, cored and cut into 1/2-inch pieces (6 cups)

If you can, include duck confit, duck or even chicken quarters.  I could not find confit de canard so we went without poultry and it was still excellent.

1/2 stick (1/4 cup) unsalted butter, softened (see note below)
12 (1/2-inch-thick) slices from a baguette.

Preparation:

Soak beans in cold water to cover by 2 inches at room temperature at least 8 hours, or quick-soak (see cooks' note, below). Drain in a colander.

Stick clove into onion. Bring ham hocks and 3 quarts water to a boil in a wide 6- to 7-quart heavy pot, skimming off any froth, then reduce heat and simmer, covered, 1 hour. Add beans, onion, parsley, bay leaf, thyme, and garlic and simmer, uncovered, stirring occasionally, until beans are almost tender, 40 to 50 minutes.

When beans are almost done, peel potatoes and cut into 1-inch pieces. Add potatoes, turnips, carrots, leeks and cabbage to beans, then simmer, uncovered, until vegetables are very tender, 20 to 25 minutes.

Remove ham hocks. When ham hocks are cool enough to handle, discard skin and bones, then cut meat into bite-size pieces. Stir into soup with salt and pepper to taste. Discard bay leaf and onion.

Spread butter on both sides of bread, then toast in a 12-inch heavy skillet over moderate heat, turning over once, until golden, about 2 minutes total.

Serve soup with toasts. (This may taste good but is not necessary as the soup is quite rich by itself.)

Cooks' notes:
• Beans can be soaked up to 12 hours, chilled.
• To quick-soak beans: Cover beans with cold water by 2 inches in a 5- to 6-quart pot and bring to a boil, uncovered. Boil beans, uncovered, 2 minutes, then remove from heat and let stand, uncovered, 1 hour.
• Soup improves in flavor if made 1 day ahead, cooled completely, uncovered, then chilled, covered. Remove any solidified fat and reheat, thinning with water if necessary.

 


 

February 06, 2008

Kingdom Animalia: Body symmetry and Sponges

Sea_anemoneChers Amis,

Just when you thought we had vanished, we resurface with another exciting entry from our weekly Adventures in Life Science!  This semester we have moved from the microscopic realms of the Kingdom Monera and Kingdom Protista and the ever fascinating fairyland of the Kingdom Fungi, to the Kingdom Animalia. My co-conspirator and I spent much of the Christmas break trying to design the framework for this study and stumbled upon a fantastic 8-part television series produced by the Sea Studios Foundation and National Geographic called "The Shape of Life."  The series, which orginally aired on PBS in 2002, follows the evolution/development of animal life on earth by focusing each episode on the morphology and design of the major eight phyla in the Kingdom Animalia.  There is an AMAZING companion  The Shape of Life website and a downloadable activities guide. We were able by sheer chance and blessing  to locate a copy of the 8 episode series on VHS from a lending institution to use as our 'spine' (no vertebrate/invertebrate pun intended).  I imagine that many library systems would carry a copy.  Watch it and prepare to be astounded.

So what have we done this year so far? 

Week 1 was a general introduction the Kingdom Animalia, what makes an animal an animal, the three basic types of body symmetry (bilateral, radial, an asymmetrical), we watched a United Streaming video on "Biology: The Science of Life: The World of Animals", reviewed the suggested vocabulary, and had the kids use play doh to quickly model an example of an animal exhibiting each of the types of body symmetry.  No homework except to start reading anything and everything about our first phylum Porifera - Sponges.

Week 2 - Sponges/Porifera.  We started by watching episode I: "Origins" of The Shape of Life.  Gorgeous photography of taxonomists collecting and researching sponges in the waters of Indonesia.  My favorite part was when they added a bright non-toxic dye near the exterior of a sponge and how it streamed forth from the osculum in a brilliant column of color. There was also an excellent explanation of how scientists at Woods Hole are extracting DNA from sponges and using gene sequencing to trace life back to a 'animal Eve."  If you haven't already tried extracting DNA from lentils/beans you have to try it!  We did this a few years ago.  What great fun!  Here is a link from the University of Utah for instructions on How to Extract DNA from anything. I also found a great link at Purdue University to teach about DNA and gene sequencing using Legos. We haven't done this yet, but we will probably spend at least a week later on in the semester talking about genetics. After the video we also reviewed the 3 major classes of sponges and basic sponge cell types.

For homework they had to read and complete this Sponge Coloring Diagram, label another sponge diagram from  Power Practice Life Science book, and research a sponge from their assigned class, write a short report and make a model.  Caddie wrote about the Hexactinellida and spicules, Scarlett, Demospongea and the purple tube sponge, and Cornflower, Calcarea and the three canal arrangements - specifically the leucoid. Pippin, not to be left out, made a very nice  sculpey  scleropongiae or coral-like sponge (some books do not consider this to be a separate class, but we needed a fourth :-) and completed one of the sponge diagrams from Enchanted Learning.  They all turned out very well.   Argh!  My camera is not docked to my computer so I can't upload a picture. C'est la vie!

Yesterday we started Week 3 on the Phyla Cnidaria - sea anemones and jellyfish - but I am out of time.

--Marjorie (who has no time to edit, spell check or find a sponge photo- je suis desolee!)

PS - Tu vois, Helene, je ne suis pas morte :-) au moins, pas encore!

PSS - Here is a great site and animation of sponges  and another with animation of water flow and feeding in sponges

January 14, 2008

Constancy is a gift. Ask for it!

Soundofmusic4 Chers Amis,

January's crisp air was so clean and full of promise! The skeins of tangled Christmas lights had been stowed in the attic and the minimalistic look in my yet empty living room was down right therapeutic after the joyous sensory overload of the holidays. It felt so liberating tearing my tattered tabbed 2007 pages from my Covey planner and snapping in the bright, firm 2008s,  I wanted to break into my rendition of "These are a few of my favorite things". A new start!  A clean desk!  Fresh, color-coded calender and To Do files! Joy!

- Two weeks later - Real life (and hormones) return. The dog bites, the bees sting, and you're feeling sad.    Last Saturday I was in one of those moods.  When you just feel down  - and drained - and ready to give up. Does this ever happen to you?  Blessedly, it was the second Saturday of the month so it was the day for my monthly, early morning spiritual retreat and Father spoke about the beauty and challenges of the New Year.   Each month, Father chooses a virtue.  January was Constancy. Without it, even our best plans and resolutions wither. I found Father's talk so helpful, I thought I would share a little with you. 

Constancy is perseverance, fortitude, follow-through, finishing what you start, will power at work.  It is looking ahead to see if you have on hand what it takes to complete the task you've begun.  Then, it is asking yourself what motivation you need to fuel your work and whether or not you have purity of intention. Who are you doing this for and why? So often when we make our plans, they are just that, ours and we forget to pray, to focus the supernatural and spiritual dimension of all we do. If we want to grow in constancy and see the fruits of our plans, our number one priority should be prayer, taking the time to come closer to Christ. 

Sometimes it is HARD to find time for prayer and it seems like if I stop for 5 minutes my whole rhythm of the  day will be off.  It won't. When I plan personal meditative prayer in my day it all flows better.  Life happens, but it is critical that we keep trying.   Father told a wonderful story about how he once took a friend to compete in a major US marathon.  He asked his friend what his best time was so he could meet him at the finish line and drive him home.  The friend told him and went and ran the race.  A few hours later, Father looked at his watch and realized he had better amble over to the appointed area as his friend should be arriving in 30-45 mins.  He was surprised to see his friend coming toward him at that moment.  He had already finished the race and looked refreshed.  Father asked if the runner realized that he had cut 30 min off his best time and if he was surprised.  Yes and yes.  His friend said that as he was running through the city he saw a church that he and Father had visited previously.  He stopped running and made a 5-10 minute visit to the Blessed Sacrament and then continued his race. Father was astounded and yet understood the power of putting God first in our schedule. This was obviously miraculous, but so is chasing, teaching, and loving small children 24/7 - just in less obvious ways.  Constancy is running the good race, struggling to the end without giving up to discouragement or indolence.  Running WITH God  and getting up when we fall.

When do you give up on resolutions?  I get so frustrated when things get difficult.  I begin to question if this was meant to be, if I am supposed to do this, why is it so hard?  Father talked about how the problem is usually a sense of weariness and discouragement or annoyance at repeated actions/efforts that seem fruitless.  This weakens the will and we decide to take a break or sleep in or quit. (Anyone?)  So how do we foster constancy and succeed with our plans?  Here are a few of the suggestions Father gave us:

  • Remember that perseverance is a gift from God that is acquired in prayer.  Ask for it!
  • Take your vacation in Heaven.  Life is short and eternity is long.  Get up and keep running.
  • Be courageous.  Be not afraid when things go wrong.  Look at what is going right.  (I have a bad case of the glass half empty syndrome when I'm down. Do you?)
  • We do need downtime - Plan breaks within structure. Put time for getting outside, taking a walk or run, seeing a moving IN YOUR SCHEDULE.  But choose something virtuous and healthy, don't always be a couch potato.
  • Plan ahead and say 'no' when you have to.  Ask "What does God want me to do."
  • Use the spiritual means available. Don't squander graces you could obtain from the sacraments or prayer.
  • Delegate when you have to. Busy people often micromanage  (Who? Me?)  Give others the opportunity to serve.
  • Rapid Recovery - When you fall, get up as quickly as possible and don't beat yourself up about it.
  • Have some system of accountability such as a friend/dh that can remind you about your plans
  • Smile and shine - try to do whatever you do with charity and elegance
  • Pay attention to the person you are with and turn off distractions. Be TRULY with them.
  • Do little hidden acts of charity
  • Do whatever it is with purity of intention, without pride or vanity. Do it for love of God and the other

So make plans, de-clutter, reorganize, resolve - and add a dose of Constancy.  I am going to do my best to finish what I start, especially the little things and to live "A work begun is a work finished." Constancy, as Martha would say, "Is a good thing" and it is one of my favorites - I just need more of it!

--Marjorie